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Sandler’s reinforcement is like rebar––a powerful strengthener


Always going. Yes, I am. My thoughts spin as fast as my tires when I’m driving to my Sandler Training center every morning. Of course, often these thoughts are on Sandler as I mentally prepare for my Foundations or President’s Club sessions.

Well, the other morning as I drove through a construction zone on the interstate it was no different, except this time I happened to really look at the old concrete the work crews were removing. Visible in the broken pieces of the road foundation were rods of rebar; the steel bars that reinforce the concrete to make it even stronger, AND MORE POWERFUL. Sandler’s tagline came to mind, “finding power in reinforcement.” It occurred to me that rebar is a perfect example of the concept.

Concrete is strong to begin with, much like Sandler’s sales training concepts which are strengthened in us through gradual, incremental growth through reinforcement, just like the calculated, repetitive use of rebar throughout a concrete slab. Instead of rebar, our constant practicing takes us from knowing to owning the Sandler Selling System.

That notion of making things that are already strong—for example, techniques like reversing, the dummy curve, and negative reverses—even stronger via ongoing reinforcement is a key factor in the success of Sandler-trained sales professionals. When we add the dimensions of our attitude and behavior to technique, we further strengthen the foundation for our success.

Reinforcement contrasts sharply with the experience of traditionally trained Wally Weakcloser. Wally attends a sales workshop here and another one there, taking copious notes which he then files away for future reference. He gets revved up to perform as “Super Salesperson,” but his enthusiasm quickly fades when the going gets tough. And the pep talks by his sales manager don’t give him enough fuel to travel the long haul. Without a system like Sandler, which constantly reinforces concepts for continuous growth in the sales process, Wally has to run on his own steam. He just doesn’t have the tools or the drive to go the distance for SUCCESS.

I think we can take this Sandler roadway analogy one step further. Once we have laid a solid foundation made even stronger through reinforcement, we have a veritable superhighway to take us efficiently to our planned goal/destination, without stops and starts, potholes and dead ends.

The way to become a better salesperson is to utilize the Sandler Selling System to find POWER through reinforcement––concrete and rebar.

Brian Hart is a Sandler Trainer in St. Cloud, MN.

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You can’t earn when you’re in “knowing” mode


Salespeople could significantly increase their earnings if they stopped saying and believing “I know why…”


The reality is that their “knowledge” is a guess created from vague statements from prospects (“we really like your presentation”) and clients (“your service is top notch”) that salespeople leave unexplored because they don’t want to be “pushy”, “rock the boat” or they “know why the client called.”


Keep in mind, the first rule of the prospect’s system is to withhold information (or lie, if you prefer). Prospects and clients are trained to keep the truth from salespeople because they’re mentally and emotionally protecting themselves.
The two primary reasons salespeople choose to “know” instead of exploring vague statements dropped by clients and prospects are: 1) they aren’t mentally and emotionally tough and 2) they aren’t comfortable being vulnerable.

Becoming mentally and emotionally tough doesn’t mean not having emotions or withholding emotions, but it does mean salespeople:

  1. Aren’t attached to the outcome – if their prospect says “no” or their client chooses not to expand their order, they don’t feel gutted.
  2. Don’t get emotionally involved in their meetings – as David Sandler said, “only the prospect may become emotionally involved in the sales interview.” Getting emotionally involved means a salesperson is focused on getting their needs met instead of helping their prospect resolve their pain.
  3. Separate their role from their identity – failing as a salesperson is just role failure. It doesn’t mean that salesperson is a failure as a person. Unfortunately, most of society equates role success or failure with an individual’s self-worth.

Being vulnerable doesn’t mean begging for business. Salespeople who are vulnerable:

  1. Don’t make assumptions – they take statements like, “it looks really good for you (to get our business)” and they find out what their prospect really means.
  2. Establish credibility – by helping their client design a solution to their problem instead of imposing a solution on them.
  3. Learn more and earn more – being vulnerable triggers a psychological reaction in a prospect to “rescue” the salesperson and share more information, which may lead to a larger problem for the salesperson to solve.

By thinking they know instead of making time to be vulnerable and actually learning the truth behind their client’s vague statements, salespeople leave a lot of money on the table and reduce the length of client relationships.

Get mentally and emotionally tough, get out of “knowing” mode and put more money in your pocket.

 

Hamish Knox is a Sandler Trainer in Calgary, Alberta.

 

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Living Your Best Life


At Sandler Training, we develop professionals in sales, management and customer service. Professionals have a commitment to be the best they can be. They do things a little differently than the average performers.

What do the most successful professionals in any industry have in common?

They study. They invest in themselves. They practice. They have systems and processes and they use them. Finally, they are driven by passion and purpose.

In my studies, I recently read the book OFF Balance by Matthew Kelly, where he describes living a passion and purpose filled life and I highly recommend it. He says passion and purpose come from personal clarity about how you live your life.

What is the best way to live?

As human beings, we thrive when we seek happiness. Some people mistake this for pleasure or instant gratification. However, what people really desire is satisfaction. Pleasure lasts only as long as the activity producing it. Satisfaction is sustainable health, wealth, and happiness. Learning to make great choices is integral to leading a rich and fulfilling life.

Matthew Kelly describes three philosophies of our age that stop us from achieve sustainable happiness and excellence in our lives and businesses:

  1. Individualism – What is in it for me? This fosters greed, selfishness and exploitation.
  2. Hedonism – A philosophy that emphasizes pleasure as the ultimate goal of life. The hedonist motto is: “If it feels good, do it.” What if everyone on your team only wanted to do what was enjoyable?
  3. Minimalism – What is the least I can do? Minimal effort for maximum reward. Minimalism is the enemy of excellence and the father of mediocrity.

These philosophies are lazy attempts to answer the question: “What is the best way to live?”

A more strategic and fulfilling approach are 3 simple principles:

  1. Live to become a better version of yourself, not a second rate version. Be yourself, but a better you. Make good life choices that take you there. You have free will. You get to choose how you live your life.
  2. Virtue defines the best way to live. Who would you rather spend time with; generous people or selfish people, courageous people or cowardly people, humble people or prideful people, patient or impatient people? The whole world prefers virtue. Virtue is the essence of excellence in life and business.
  3. Self-control and delayed gratification are the keys to living for a better tomorrow, better health, and greater influence.

Individualism, Hedonism and Minimalism lead to decay of personal self-control and the demise of our ability to delay gratification. Leave pleasure seeking activities, and choose a better way to live.

Choosing happiness and satisfaction in life and business lead to an increase in our passion and purpose, and give us more energy.  Your energy is directly related to your capacity for life. The more energy you have, the more you can accomplish.

Choose to take your life and your profession seriously. You control your income. You control your time. You decide how you will live your life. In what areas of your life are you seeking pleasure vs. satisfaction? What is the number one thing that would move you to being a better version of yourself?

I challenge you today to decide to study, invest in yourself, practice, and have a system that produces the results you desire. Decide to be the best you can be.

 

Steve Montague
Sandler Training Kansas City – http://www.effectivesales.sandler.com/

 

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Don’t Equate Self-Worth with Sales Success


David Sandler said, “sales is no place to get your needs met,” but too often salespeople get their needs met by eagerly jumping through the hoops their prospect puts down, not for the chance at getting an order, but because they want their prospect to like them.

Salespeople mistake their prospect liking them for success because they have “I/R confusion.”

What this means, in simple terms, is they mistake their self-worth or “identity” (“I-Side”) with the “roles” (“R-Side”) they play, like “salesperson.”

When someone confuses their “I-Side” and their “R-Side” they exhibit two primary behaviors.

  1. Fear of failure – someone who feels their self-worth is connected to how well they perform a specific role (e.g. salesperson) is not likely to actively prospect or close a prospect’s file.
    Fear of failure usually manifests in excuses like, “I’ll make calls next week. My prospects are all busy with month end reports.”
  2. Need for approval – an individual suffering I-Side/R-Side confusion will continually seek recognition from others that they are succeeding in their role to prove that they are a good person. They are not likely to ask tough questions when a prospect blows smoke and, typically, they will let their prospect control their sales cycle.
    Need for approval typically manifests in client empathy statements like, “they said they really liked my proposal because it was obvious I had put a lot of work into it, but their budget was cut yesterday so we need to sharpen our pencils.”

To eliminate I-Side/R-Side confusion start by internalizing, David Sandler’s rule “who you ‘I’ isn’t what you ‘R’.”

That is, your successes and failures in your roles do not affect your self-worth.

In sales this is tricky because we get beaten up every day by our prospects, our managers and ourselves.

Next, journal every day about your R-Side and I-Side.

R side journaling typically starts with setting goals in the morning (e.g. 30 calls, 1 networking event, 3 meetings with prospects, 1 workout) then a) noting if you hit your morning goals and b) writing down the lessons you learned during your day.

I side journaling is typically focused on your attitude both in the morning and at night (e.g. “I have equal business stature with my prospects” and “maintained equal business stature even when prospect pressured me to lower prices.”).

Finally, regularly review your successes and lessons learned on your I-Side and R-Side. Even though your sides are separate, they are connected, so reviewing your successes and applying lessons learned will improve your skill at resisting need for approval and fear of failure.

As you become stronger separating your “I” and your “R,” your sales will go up, but if not, that shouldn’t change your self-worth.

 

Hamish Knox is a Sandler Trainer in Calgary, Alberta.

 

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Tarzan and the Elephants


My Mom was a funny lady and during my youth, she was constantly throwing riddles at me.

Some of her riddles came in pairs and the pairs typically had a point.

One such pair of riddles has been a huge lesson for me as I have gone through life. Here they are. (more…)

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An Alternative to Traditional Performance Management, Part 2



As a manager, your most valuable asset is your time.

In Part 1 of “An Alternative to Traditional Performance Management” you learned how to get time back in your week by implementing a 3-part performance management system: funnel management, a weekly behavior plan (a.k.a., “cookbook”) and a personalized development plan.

In Part 2, you’ll learn a system for reducing your time spent on, and your team’s anxiety about, their performance review. (more…)

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Why Do Prospects and Salespeople Play Games?


Have you ever given thought to how people decide to buy a product or service? Consider yourself in this analogy – do you employ any of these strategies? We believe we have a need or we determine that we have a need for a product or service. With the Internet at our fingertips we immediately do some research on whatever we are in the market for. This process may take minutes or it may take hours depending on whether you are a detail person or just want a quick overview. In addition to our Internet search, we may also ask family and friends for their recommendations. (more…)

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A Cure for the Summer Sales Blues


When the calendar turns to July and August, most people struggle to prospect because they believe that all of their prospects are on vacation.

Often summer is a great time to reach decision makers. They are in the office while their staff is away. (more…)

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Games Prospects Play


Prospects like to play games with salespeople. The purpose of games prospects play is to make a salesperson feel not-OK.

When a salesperson feels not-OK in front of a prospect, they are more likely to give up their time and information in the hope that their prospect will make them feel OK again. (more…)

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Better is in the Eye of the Beholder


The two words that are guaranteed to trip up most sales people are “better” and “value.” The latter we’ll talk about in another post.

Typically the “better” trap is set by a prospect at the beginning of a meeting. After introductions and polite conversation your prospect says, “so tell me how you are better than my current supplier.”

If your instinct is to jump to a features-and-benefits presentation, STOP! There is no way for you to answer that question and have any chance of closing the sale.

There are three reasons why your prospects set the “better” trap:

  1. They have been trained by amateur salespeople who sell by claiming that their thing is better than what the prospect is currently using.
  2. They believed a “better” claim by an amateur salesperson and had the painful experience of finding out that what they switched to wasn’t better.
  3. They want to be entertained by another salesperson exhausting themselves through an elaborate dog-and-pony presentation.

Fortunately for you, the better trap is one of your prospect’s weaker moves for controlling your sales interview.

To keep your sales interview moving, and put you back in control, you can remove the better trap with one of the following:

  1. Kick the trap out of the way (gently) – you can’t tell them why you’re better, because better is in the eye of the beholder.
  2. Find out what “better” means – what has to be “better” for your prospect to do business with you?
  3. Uncover the underlying reason for asking – your prospect may have been burned in the past. Uncover that now or it will come back to bite you later.

Once the better trap is removed, you will be back in control of the sales interview. Your prospect does; however, have many more traps at their disposal and will employ them all to force you into their system.

Talk to your Sandler Trainer about the traps your prospects set for you and your options for removing those traps safely.

Hamish Knox is a Sandler Trainer in Calgary, Alberta.

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